Individuation for Adult Replacement Children Ways of Coming into Being

Kristina E. Schellinski uncovers the hidden trauma of the replacement child ? born into an atmosphere of grief to substitute for a lost sibling or other person ? and helps adult replacement children discover the uniqueness of their self.

Schellinski combines Jungian theory with research from over 20 years of clinical practice to demonstrate how adult replacement children who suffer from physical and psychological distress can rediscover the essence of their being in the transformative process of individuation. Theoretical yet practical, the book discusses core concepts of analytical psychology, psychoanalysis and attachment theory, and detailed case studies address grief, guilt, identity formation, relational challenges and shadow aspects. Schellinski explores how Jung?s birth after three dead children impacted his search for self and his theory and discloses her own personal experience. On treatment and prevention, she argues that by recognising elements of the condition, clinicians can facilitate acceptance, compassion and healing, and help reduce transgenerational transmission.

This book is an indispensable tool for clinicians, analytical psychologists, psychodynamic psychotherapists and those in other medical professions, and will be of great interest to academics and readers interested in Jungian studies and existential questions. It offers adult replacement children and their families hope for a psychological rebirth.

Foreword by Murray Stein; Foreword by Albert C. Cain; Prologue by Kristina E. Schellinski; Chapter 1: Introduction; Chapter 2: Discovery of the Replacement Child Condition; Chapter 3: Famous Replacement Children in Psychoanalysis; Chapter 4: In the Beginning: Early Bonding, Attachment and Relation to Self; Chapter 5: Identity – a Question of Life or Death?; Chapter 6: Working through Grief; Chapter 7: Different Strands of Guilt in the Replacement Child; Chapter 8: Confronting Difficult Aspects of Shadow; Chapter 9: From Missing Other Towards Union with Self; Chapter 10: Treatment, Prevention and Transgenerational Transmission; Chapter 11: Concluding Reflections on Transformation

Kristina E. Schellinski, M.A., is a supervising and teaching analyst with the C. G. Jung Institute Zürich, Küsnacht, and ISAP, the International School of Analytical Psychology, Zürich, Switzerland. She works with adults in private practice in Geneva and is a lecturer and consultant of the Geneva University Hospital (HUG) Psychiatry Department, author of professional articles and speaker at international conferences. From 1983 to 1998, she worked for the United Nations Children’s Fund (UNICEF) in New York and Geneva. Her website can be found at kristina-schellinski.com and at adult-replacement-children.com.