Negotiating Success Tips and Tools for Building Rapport and Dissolving Conflict While Still Getting What You Want
Auteur : Hornickel Jim
Negotiating Success provides expert guidance on how to improve strategies and outcomes in negotiating anything in professional and personal life. With a constant focus on the mind, body, and spirit of the professional negotiator, this easy-to- ready text brings a holistic approach to the hard and soft skills needed for ethical negotiations. The result is a better understanding of how to negotiate successfully for mutual benefit by all parties.
- Offers tips and tools, such as how to use positive psychology to unite your team, emotional intelligence for successful negotiation, and how to minimize conflict
- Spells out the six principles of ethical influence
- Written by Jim Hornickel, the founder of Bold New Directions, a transformational learning organization that provides training, coaching, retreats, and keynotes across the world, specializing in negotiation, leadership, communication, presentation, and corporate training
Negotiating Success delivers an unparalleled blend of practical and explicit steps to take to achieve win-win negotiations, every time.
Introduction xi
I THE PEOPLE IN THE PROCESS 1
1 Valuing Mutuality, Proactivity, and R.E.S.P.E.C.T. 3
Mutuality 3
Proactivity 6
R.E.S.P.E.C.T 7
Mutuality, Proactivity, and R.E.S.P.E.C.T. Summary 19
2 Reviewing Human Fundamentals 23
False Self and True Self 26
Centricities 31
Reviewing Human Fundamentals Summary 33
3 Expanding Emotional Intelligence 35
Self-Awareness 37
Self-Management 44
Social Awareness 46
Managing Relationships 50
Expanding Emotional Intelligence Summary 51
Case Study 52
4 Working with Negotiating Styles 54
Doer—Task-Oriented 61
Thinker—Task-Oriented 63
Talker—People-Oriented 65
Guardian—People-Oriented 67
Working with Negotiating Styles Summary 69
Unfolding Case Study 69
5 Integrating Six Principles of Ethical Influence 72
The Principle of Reciprocity 73
The Principle of Liking 77
The Principle of Social Proof 80
The Principle of Authority 81
The Principle of Consistency 84
The Principle of Scarcity 86
Integrating the Six Principles of Influence Summary 88
6 Dissolving Conflict 90
Code of Conduct 91
Conflict Escalation 95
Conflict De-Escalation 95
Dissolving Conflict Summary 96
7 Presenting Your Case 98
Why People Buy 99
Image, Productivity, and/or Profitability 100
Numb—Pain—Ready to Act 102
Reception Challenges 104
Doer as Presenter 106
Thinker as Presenter 109
Talker as Presenter 112
Guardian as Presenter 114
Summary of Behavior Styles as Presenters 116
Setting Direction—4 A’s 117
Summary of Behavioral Styles 4 A’s Satisfaction Points 123
Using Your Voice—The 6 P’s 123
Competence and Confidence 130
Composed Beginning 130
Strong Stride 130
Leader’s Stance 131
Breathe 132
Eye Connection 132
Expressive Face 133
Body Language and Gestures 134
Presenting Your Case Summary 135
II THE NEGOTIATING PROCESS 137
8 Understanding Negotiation Fundamentals 139
Negotiation Fundamentals 139
Assumptions 139
Information Is Power 142
Disclosure Establishes Trust 143
Overly Competitive = Lose-Lose 144
Trading Value—Concessions 145
Creative Thinking 148
Understanding Negotiation Fundamentals Summary 153
9 Creating Range and Alternatives 155
Wish 156
Starting Point 157
Who Names the Number First? 158
Bottom Line 159
BATNA—Best Alternative to a Negotiated Agreement 160
WATNA—Worst Alternative to a Negotiated Agreement 161
Creating Range and Alternatives Summary 162
10 Concretizing “Why,” “What,” and “How” 163
Why, What, and How 163
Concretizing Why, What, and How Summary 168
11 Preparing for Your Session 170
Uniting Your Team 177
Preparing for Your Session Summary 179
12 Discovering All Sides 181
Discovery Phase 181
Skills for Use in Discovery 185
Discovery Phase Summary 203
13 Checking In Before Moving On 205
Check-in Phase 205
Check In Before Moving On Summary 207
14 Trading for Mutual Gain 209
Trade Phase 209
Trading for Mutual Gain Summary 215
15 Evaluating for Improvement 217
Evaluate Phase 217
Evaluating for Improvement Summary 219
16 Disposing of Tactics 221
Exposing Tactics 221
The Use of Tactics 222
Disposing of Tactics Summary 240
17 Practicing for Life 242
Appendix 243
Index 249
JIM HORNICKEL is the cofounder of Bold New Directions, a transformational learning organization that provides training, coaching, retreats, and keynotes across the world, specializing in negotiation, management, leadership, communication, and presentation through corporate training. In addition to his role at Bold New Directions, Jim has been an incubator of three businesses, a manager in several industries, and a leader in contract, staff, and labor negotiations.
Date de parution : 12-2013
Ouvrage de 272 p.
15.5x23.1 cm
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